It is an actual story of overcoming past relationship trauma.
How should I do this? Just the question that then, I was asking myself on one lovely afternoon.
They’ve completely fancied the idea of being able to hide it till the end of the earth. With long overdue details, on which there is nothing immaculate.
Spoiled got spoilt. Behind-the-scenes facts that are so soiled.
Anyone involved with a leftover sane mind should have seen it coming.
Respect begets respect should have been considered from the very beginning, not in the middle or upon experiencing the outcome.
Too bad, I’m not a fan of sugarcoating being a forte. I only ordered some donuts and boiled a fresh chamomile tea.
And, separately lighting a candle, as this is not your ordinary anniversary. 🎉
Been CELEBRATING
The Call-Out perfectly worked in getting confirmation of what has been denied and hidden.
The information got squeezed out, like juices extracted from a fruit, forcibly and intended, purposely.
I already anticipated that they could not admit their mistake or with a drop of remorse.
Given their flair of arrogance, it’s not a surprise that they opted for a blaming game added with petty slanderous and defaming of character storylines.
I would have preferred it handled the classier way like in-person talk over coffee and croissants, however, it’s not viable when it’s karmic without a spine on the other end of the line.
It turned out to be effective though as I successfully got what I needed, a confirmation from the liar himself.
Finally, after years of hiding and lying, he got choked on his vomit and barfed.
That was the goal. Box ticked with a check in the prettiest pink.
Holla GRATITUDE of experiencing relationship trauma
I have to express a huge thanks to the woman who consciously interfered in my marriage.
She played her part so well and served the purpose for me to break free from it.
Fronting as someone to be prayerful with actions contradictory and not represent what a godly person would do.
Well, I understand there is still no cure to heal and cover the itch of a concubine wound, shamelessly she established all Selective Righteousness Syndrome to nominate, then validate such title, “The Moving On” chu-chu.
“Hey, you are fooling nobody, but yourself. Whatta… Yikes!”
A Freebie ADVICE
Projecting one-sided views favoring the wrong. How about gathering some balls to have accountability and truly repenting?
And put a halt to using the “none of us are perfect / we all make mistakes” supposition. Trying to reason discarding the emotional and physical abuse done favoring a habitual liar is deeply sickening. Loud and proud disgusting.
Yes, every human on earth does make mistakes, HOWEVER, there’s a thin line difference when done repeatedly and intentionally.
The least one can do is own up to it.
Gaining the title of being a “Homewrecker” didn’t start when you moved in together or when you got impregnated. It started the first seconds you flirted, consciously with a married or committed man. Not yet separated upon your entry – 100% Fact.
Overcoming the RELATIONSHIP TRAUMA
The alsa-balutan (sudden departure) that I did, walking away and removing myself from the bottom-feeder, betrayal-enabler-infested place, has been one of my best decisions!
It was a divinely guided thing to do. Fated, I believed I was saved from the pain, of waking up next to a liar.
My heart and brain sentiments that the turn of events is truly a blessing in disguise.
It serves right that those who played their little parts in the betrayal are removed permanently from my path.
In continuous progress doing the groundwork of re-aligning my life journey with the creator of all things.
And not for fulfilling selfish desperate pursuits, disturbing another woman’s union to have a man.
I know better now that what I can offer in this lifetime – my time, energy, divine gifts, and earthly things will only be accessible and shared with genuine connections.
Gone are the days of brushing away disrespect.
101% Self-love. I am my top priority. 💜
(I decluttered. Check the intro of my journey!)
Dose of Truth addressed to THAT WOMAN
When you settle with a proven cheater, it’s a dead giveaway you absorbed a problem. Shortsighted assumption of winning, I am so glad not to be you, and with zero interest to be in your shoes.
It’s a good thing that it is no longer 2019. If I had known all the facts then, the way I came to know last year, the handling of the situation would have been different.
The backlash on you is only based on facts, which is a must for one who signed up as a mistress should have pondered upon. Think of it as a karmic debt owed to the universe.
With years of installment payment plans stuck in the ethers. Or, with pleasure, drop your explanation at the purgatory.
TRIGGER warning
Regardless of the years past, discussion of the truth will always bite you in the ass.
(I think I just came up with an original rhyming quote! You may requote and tag me @TheGlamClosetDetox)
Factual REALIZATION of relationship trauma
You see not all of us dream of getting clung in a codependency setup, moreover, with a cheating so-called spouse, lacking the appropriate set of boundaries.
I felt relieved from the idea of not having offspring with a man (or should I state a boy) who takes comfort in spitting LIES – this, coming from a Real Wife’s viewpoint… not an Asukal de Mama’s ego-driven standpoint. 🙂
It is silly when you insinuate that it’s a trophy or a prize possession that I would seek. Nope. Not, even in the afterlife.
That doesn’t even come close to how my brain operates.
Having one (I mean another one since it is not your first), you assumed it’s a 100% guarantee for his loyalty. Oh really, now? Aw, that is cute. 🙂
The first existence of your kind in his life was in 2017. Then, you came, with the more leeching guts.
It was a huge mistake accepting his sorry ass and taking him back on that first blow.
My younger self was being too naive and forgiving. Never again.
Presently, there is you. Seem fully settled with the “Fake it, till you make it” motto.
Fun art of LETTING GO
Cheers to the lifetime of keeping up that facade display of a family built with lies, deceit, and cheating as the core foundation.
Continuously masquerade a smile with the assumption of forever.
Live in an infidelity fairytale and disregard the aftermath of what goes around always comes back around.
By all means, be an inspiration and show us what Not to become. You do You.
Our little world stands as the witness and unwelcomely, unavoidably seeing what’s next. 💋
Anyone can have an opinion, but an opinion does not equate to facts about the situation.
POST DISCLAIMER: The literal and figurative details mentioned in this blog post are based on the factual personal experiences of the author. Written for those who have gone through or are in the same situation. This is not a one-size-fits-all scenario, only catered to those who can relate and resonate. Read with complete discernment as there are different ways of moving forward.
Satirically expressed writing – far from a victim telltale, more of a survivor.
“No name of human, animal, or place mentioned. If by chance you are one of the stalking karmics from the past, in denial of the boredom and burdensome life, be warned that the written content of this blog will debunk your falsehood narrative. It is given that the talk of truth unveiling relationship trauma you brought will ick your ego. Perhaps, do some self-reflection or find a 1000-page book and read about accountability. 😊”
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